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Triplicity Among Friends

11/24/2016

 
I have a new novella coming out this week. “Brando and Bad Choices” appears in Triplicity: The Terror Project, Volume 1. The book also features two other novellas: “Steel” by Tony Tremblay, and “The Christmas Spirit” by Rob Smales. This week, I’m going to tell you about those guys.

Back in 2011, I was at a writer’s conference. Jason and I were walking along a short patch of beach when we ran into a stranger wearing a suit jacket and a big smile. (Also other clothes. He wasn’t some weird beach flasher.) Now, I try to be a friendly person most days, so I said hello. He returned the greeting. We stopped to chat for a minute, and it turned out this guy was attending his very first gathering of writers, and had just had a story accepted in Epitaphs: The Journal of the New England Horror Writers. As coincidence would have it, I was working on the line edits for that very book, and knew his story well. It was quite good. I mentioned this. A friendship was born.

I would eventually learn that the suit jacket was standard attire for Tony Tremblay, along with the camera he always has hanging around his neck. Over the years, I’ve been able to hang out with Tony at other writerly gatherings, and we’ve had some great conversations. He’s one of the kindest, most optimistic and genuine people I’ve ever met, and sometimes, when I’m on the fence about going somewhere, learning that Tony will be there is often enough to persuade me to go.

In October 2012, I was at an event in Billerica, MA, one of a handful of writers reading that day at a karate school. As we were setting up a table of books, a guy rushed in: shaved head, glasses, talking so fast and bouncing so much it wore me out just watching him. This was Rob Smales’s first event, and he was clearly excited/nervous/bouncy to be there.

Now, astute readers of this blog know who Rob is—he has since become my editing partner and my best writing friend, but at that first event, we didn’t have much time to converse. It took a few more meetings to discover we shared a similar sense of humor, a mutual concern that we’d be locked up some day for the rather twisted turns our minds often took, and a passion for proper grammar. 
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That's me, Rob, and Tony. And yes, people often remark on Tony's resemblance to Steven Spielberg.
Fast forward to Triplicity. When this book was in its infant stage, there was a different cast of writers, a different publisher, and no foreseeable release date. Through the twists and turns that life often takes—a couple of missed deadlines, one writer’s need to have the rights back to a story earlier than planned, that kind of thing—what was once supposed to be a one-book collection featuring four writers is now a three-book series showcasing nine. And in the first installment, I get to share the cover with two of my favorite people in the whole world. So yeah, I’m excited.

Triplicity: The Terror Project, Volume 1 is available now on Amazon, Barnes & Noble, and in select retail outlets. “Brando and Bad Choices” is about a woman trying to find redemption for her sins, though it’s not easy, because she’s already in hell—literally. “Steel” tells the tale of a group of survivors in a dystopian world trying to figure out how things went so wrong. Tony’s story cleverly combines elements of both H.P. Lovecraft and Mad Max. And “The Christmas Spirit” features a woman trying to explain to her daughters-in-law how one family holiday tradition got its decidedly spiritual start. They’re three very different tales, and a lot of blood, sweat, tears, and editing went into the collection. But when you’re working with two people you love and admire, it hardly feels like work. Honestly, the best way to describe Triplicity is this: my friends and I were playing together with words, and now it’s a book.
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Enjoy. I did.
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Giving Thanks

11/18/2016

 
​Last week, there was an awful lot of vitriol online, and it was depressing the hell out of me. I needed to do something. I posted this Facebook status update: “What are you thankful for this Thanksgiving?” It was an effort on my part to cheer myself up. I needed to read something happy, not hateful.
 
At first, there was nothing. My post went largely ignored for almost an hour . . . and then this reply came:
 
 “It’s been a hard year for my family. We’ve had several crises: health, finance, work; it all seemed to come at once. I’ve seen couples split up under stress like this. And we have a two-year-old, which—despite what Pinterest and popular culture want you to think—is not always conducive to marital bliss. This year, I’m thankful that my husband and I grew closer and met those challenges together. And I’m thankful for him. He’s my rock and I’m lucky to have him.” ~ A.J. O’Connell
 
Then A.J. added: “P.S.: He and I are also grateful for bottles of wine. The big, economy-sized ones.”
 
For the first time since November 8, I smiled.
 
I think I would’ve been happy with just that one response, but slowly, more came through:
 
“The isolationist bubble of a home with cats and comfortable furniture.” ~ Matthew Bartlett
 
The introvert in me nodded in agreement. Then:
 
“Every time something I take for granted as normal in my life is pointed out as maybe not being the norm for others brings me to tears. From my work, my home, the place where I choose to raise my children, my children, the places where I can buy food, my doctors, my friends, my parents, my siblings and family, my safety nets, my opportunities, my social and intellectual lives, my education, even the restaurant choices I have. I really only have an inkling of how lucky I am.” ~ Kristina Hals
 
“Thankful DOCTOR STRANGE put me in touch with my childhood self. I stayed up all night making paper plate mobiles to hang over my bed.” ~ Paul McMahon
 
“I’m thankful for all my boys and a family with a little bit of twisted humor (and I’m thankful Stacey has that humor as well). Here’s a picture of the turkey I made last year . . . who wants a breast?” ~ Renee Holder
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​“Without telling Jeff what it was, for his response to meeting and marrying me (don’t throw up in your mouth!). I’m thankful for having employment (although not easy every day teaching), I am glad I’m working and feeling I may make an impact on someone’s life.” ~ Susan Kallenbach
 
“I’m thankful people still blog. I’m an avid blog reader and many I like have vanished.” ~ Nick Cato
 
 
“I am thankful that Stacey indulges me every time I wonder out loud what chupacabra tastes like.” ~ Steve Boudreault
 
“I am thankful that, after 37 years, I’m finally reunited with my brother.” ~ Erin Thorne
 
“I was listening to NPR (yes . . . I listen to NPR!) last night, and it was a compilation of interviews with Veterans. Men, women, WWII through present day, and the one thing that ran throughout every vet, was just how absolutely thankful they were to return home. Their stories were harrowing . . . America, no matter how ‘bad’ we think it is, is STILL the most free, most wealthy, most liberated country. Whatever we are feeling right now, it’s better than what’s going on in most of the rest of the world. Oh yeah, and I’m thankful for my Keurig. Coffee on demand! Sometimes, I actually get impatient when I’m waiting for my single cup of coffee to brew, that’s when I really need to check myself  . . . Oh! And I’m thankful that Negan didn’t kill Daryl. The Walking Dead would never be the same without Daryl . . . And my kids . . .” ~ Jessica Fuller Townsend
 
“I am thankful for life! It isn’t easy. I have a great support system. I wouldn’t want anyone going through what I am going through but I have to honestly say, I am thankful it is me and not my son, my husband or any other family member close to me. I am thankful for my strength and courage. I am thankful that I can lean on many, many friends and family to find my strength from.” ~ Danielle Deschene Smith
 
“I am thankful for people like you and Jason that support and encourage my Jackie! Also would like to wish you a happy and healthful holiday season! <3” ~ Bethany Cloutier
 
“Even though it isn’t easy meeting the deadline every month, I am very thankful for the opportunity to write the travel "Escape" for Norwich Magazine. Not only has it given me the reason to visit a lot of awesome places (like I really needed one anyway!) but it has given me the chance to share those travels and the things I love with others. I always try to include a little bit of history as it’s a true passion so even though it pays virtually next to nothing, I am thankful for it. And of course I am thankful for real authors like yourself whose stories transport me away from my own day-in and day-out life; books and stories are such wonderful things and I am thankful beyond words that they exist.” ~
Linda Orlomoski
 
“Thankful for coffee and chocolate. As well as the internal optimism that allows me to focus on what I can control and my enjoyment of the little things. (I also proofread this, just for you!)” ~ Joy Mitchell
 
“I’m thankful for the folks who invented: tampons, toothpaste, and deodorant as well as the first human who was brave enough to eat cheese so moldy it turned blue.” ~ Beki Kosydar-Krantz
 
“BOOKS! I’m thankful I can disappear into different, times, cultures, countries, homes, personalities, lives . . . you get my drift. Some days I just don’t want to be me and with my Kindle (which I’m extremely grateful for) I can go anywhere be anyone, with anybody with one click at any moment. :D Ain’t life grand?” ~ Jillian Bogue
 
“I’m thankful for my new job that allows me to work from home. Now I get to see my son more. It’s also a huge help to allow me to get dinners ready, pick up, etc. My spirit is so much happier and I’m so less stressed!” ~ Shelley King Gillespie
 
“I’m thankful that Emily only has a cold and not an infection!” ~ Jean Allen
 
“I’m thankful to be able to say that you are my awesome cousin!” ~ Tina Longo Lewis
 
“My wife and kids (ages 2 to 24) and my extended family, friends, church and very understanding employers (see age 2 above). And for my writing, which I’ve been doing a heck of a lot of recently.” ~ Dan Keohane
 
“Tequila.” ~ Matthew Ross
 
“Family! ❤❤❤” ~ Terry Raymond
 
“I’m thankful for friends like you.” ~ David Daniel
 
“I’m thankful for the voices in my head. I mean that quite seriously.” ~ Vlad V.
 
As I read through the responses, my grinchy heart grew three sizes. All these wonderful people from so many facets of my life—family, former coworkers, authors, authors’ moms, authors’ BFFs from childhood that I met at a writer’s conference two years ago, people I went to high school and college with, Block Islanders, former Block Islanders . . . all friends. Most importantly, all friends. I’ll tell you something: it’s hard to be glum when someone posts a picture of a turkey with boobies in your Facebook feed.
 
Each and every person who responded made me smile, not just with their responses but because I was able to take a moment and think about how lucky I am to have each one of them in my life. It was exactly what I needed, and I’m thankful.
 
Happy Thanksgiving. Mine is that much better because of all of you.

No Blog Post This Week

11/10/2016

 
Why are you even looking? I  just told you there's no blog here.

​Maybe next week. No promises.

Commercialized

11/3/2016

 
I am prone to depression. In the past, I’d blamed this on genetics, but now I blame society. More specifically, the media. To really put a finger on it: commercials.

Back in 2013, we’d gotten rid of our satellite dish because it was an unnecessary expense, and we needed to slash those. We happily survived for a few years with NetFlix streaming and renting movies from the library, but this fall, we decided to indulge and subscribe to Sling TV. This was done out of necessity: between Facebook and general news reporting on what’s important in the world, we were worried that even if we stayed offline on Sunday nights, the morning DJ on the radio would give spoilers from each week’s episode of The Walking Dead. (Last Monday, 96.5 TIC started their hourly news update with “A shooting in Hartford last night left two dead, much like Negan’s bat on Walking Dead!”) You know. Priorities.

But with this subscription came a new issue: for the first time in three years, I was exposed to commercials again. And with that, my will to live slowly got sucked away.

I didn’t make the connection at first. I figured it was both my recent change in worksite and the onset of October that had me in a funk. Every Monday morning, I woke up feeling hopeless, useless, and unloved. Unworthy. Stressed. But maybe everyone felt this way on Monday. I trudged through my week, and sure, by Friday, I’d usually perked up some. But then, Sunday night, I’d be smothered by that black cloud of despair again.

It was my dentist who figured it out.

I like my dentist. He has a fabulous, twisted, dark sense of humor. (Once, when trying to sell me on a cosmetic fix to a crooked tooth, he tried to persuade me by saying, “This veneer would really help me if I’m called in to identify your remains when the killer clowns get you.” Sold!) I went in for my six-month cleaning, and he immediately found a chipped filling.

“You been eating granola?” No. “Dog kibble?” No. “You been watching live television?”

Why yes, I had.

“Lots of Christmas commercials? Political ads? Cleaning products?”

Yes, yes, and yes. But he knew already. “You just chipped another filling when I mentioned Christmas ads. You really need to stop grinding your teeth. I’m going to fit you for a new mouth guard. Ted Bundy had one, you know.” (Seriously, I love this guy.)

As he drilled, he treated me to a free hour of psychotherapy. “You’re being barraged with messages that your house isn’t clean enough, your candidate isn’t good enough, and you’re not spending enough at the holidays. Of course you’re depressed. You need to turn off the television ASAP. Your mental health requires it.” He sent me on my way with a shiny new porcelain filling and a copy of Bloodsucking Fiends by Christopher Moore to cheer me up.

The following Sunday night, I shut myself in my office to read while Walking Dead aired. Sure, I missed the important character introduction of Ezekiel and his tiger, but I also wasn’t exposed to ads telling me my teeth weren’t white enough, or that I didn’t love my cats if I didn’t feed them Iams. Not once did I hear Christmas music.

I slept like a baby that night.

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